Have you ever asked your guy about his day and gotten a one word answer? Or maybe a better question is, have you ever asked your guy about his day and not gotten a one word answer? It’s a rare man who willingly launches into the nitty gritty of his day, satisfying our desire for details. Most men reply with a perfunctory “good” and expect to be on their merry way.
After long day of working, both of you return home in tired state. You still have to take care of your kids and do housework while your husband still works till late night. That’s why both of you have so little time being together to talk and share. The daily routines you create with your partner can be catalysts to have a happier married life. That’s why you should pay attention in your relationship even you already belonged to each other.
So how to connect with your partner after getting home from work. Look out below effective ways:
Greet each other with a hug or a Kid
The easiest way to connect your partner is intimacy. Don’t be shy to express your love with a hug or a kiss when you see him opening the door after working. That’s
ideal gesture which draw both of you be closer. Do it as a habit everyday and you will know how it is useful
Ask an open question
Instead of giving question that you can be sure that the answer can be express in one word. Go straight to what you want to ask and listen from your spouse.
“What was the best part of your day today? Do you get any trouble?.. You are truly showing that you concern about your partner, what they encounter in a day. And it is not too difficult for them to answer to the one who always want to listen to them.
A husband or wife who works long hours and then gets criticized for working too much when they’re at home will not want to stay home. They’ll get defensive. They may stop coming home. Criticism between spouses puts emotional distance between them.
Keep smiling with each other
Be tired in workplace is enough for both men and women. They always want to come back their peaceful house with their family. Smile is a catalyst which connect people, and smile makes the life more beautiful. Instead of complaining, smiling at each other and relax. You can tell a joke, a funny story to warm up the family’s atmosphere. So, don’t come back home with bad mood.
Cook dinner together
If you two get home at the same time each evening, it’s definitely worth creating a little dinner time. Happy couples love to spend time together prepping and cooking for a meal. You can make it a romantic meal or just enjoy being in the same space. There is something special about eating a meal that is cooked with love.
Paying attention in your marriage is helpful cause you love each other and get married for a happier life of both. Sometimes, you are caught in the busy life and even ignore that you always need to express how you love your partner. Life is more beautiful because of love. It is nursed and cultivated by both of you. Therefore, Take care of your marriage life
All of these evening activities are incredibly healthy for your relationship, so go ahead and give a few a try.