Why Are the First Two Years of Marriage so Important? Many couples assume that if they live together, getting married won’t really change their relationship. The truth is not that easy. Time goes by, everything can change. The reasons are not created not only from personal characters but also external factors.
Marriage life should be taken care and cultivated even you love each other and live together in a house.
Marriage is supposed to be a ‘together forever journey .Do you know that the first two year of marriage can form a long-term fate? Before engage in marriage, both men and women should determine how to build a strong married life.
Every couple dream of being married for a long time, to achieve this, one of the most important things to note is how important the first few years of marriage is.
A lot of common problems can cause during the first 2 years of marriage that almost couples have to suffer from, including family income, caring babies, social relationship, and maintenance of emotional love. Sometime, both of you might be tired of continuous unresolved arguments and disagreement.
The feeling of being undervalued and underappreciated, a lack of conviction of the partner’s love, a loss of affection etc. are early pointers to a marriage that is bound to crash. In fact, there are a lot of couples breaking up after first year of marriage because they can’t stand living with too many disputes. Because they didn’t have careful preparation for marriage life and don’t know how to set a same goal or find a solution to solve.
Some other couples learn to harmonize with each other by understanding and tolerate. They know the most important thing is toward goal of happy life. Failures and arguments teach them how to stand up and re-build. Just overcome the first two year, the followings years of marriage will follow the ideal direct.
See, don’t think that living in marriage is easy and you can live as a natural way. Maybe you love your partner so much, but you have to know how to be compatible with them in life.
Once you start living together, making your home the way you want it to be, discovering new facts about each other, learning new things from each other and then you will realize that how lucky you are when you have got married to a wonderful person. You will feel certain that you will have a beautiful future.
There are always many things to do for your marriage. If you are having trouble finding something you can improve on, think harder. Some couples might have bigger improvements to work on and other couples might have smaller ones. Life is progress and you have one special partner in your own journey.
And of course, you will continue to learn new things every day, even after the first year is over. What happened in the first two year taught you how to to have a happy and long lasting married life. It will always bring a smile on your face whenever you will think of all these beautiful memories.